I believe that smart, successful women should have it all -- both a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. Agreed? Then read on.

As an advisor at Harvard, I noticed that smart women like yourself were having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale. They either couldn't find the right guy, were with the wrong guy, had relationships that didn't last, or had given up on dating entirely. Since these were my dear friends, this absolutely killed me. So I decided to write a book to remedy the situation -- The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible.

This is not your grandma's dating guide. Partially because I am not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman. You've got grad school, a high-powered career, yoga class and a dog, and sometimes it seems that there just isn't time for love. Moreover, a lot of guys seem to be less educated and less affluent than you. Grandma didn't cover that.

The Tao of Dating for Women combines ancient wisdom with modern science to give smart, successful women like yourself a heart-centered, science-based, practical guide to finding fulfillment in your love lives -- and far beyond. The plan is simple: first, figure out who you really are and what you really want. Then find a man, attract him and keep him in your life. I give it all to you in a progression of small, easy steps that put the fun back in dating, plus the science and reasoning behind it so you can trust where it all comes from.

Moreover, at the risk of incurring the wrath of all men, you get the insider secrets about how guys really think from someone who's been a guy professionally for over 30 years. How do men think about beauty, intimacy, commitment and sex? What's the best way to attract them? What drives them away? What makes them want to stay forever? I spill the beans.

Also in there: the Magic Question; the Tiered Approach; the 3 ways to make a man fall in love with you; Rejection-Proofing; and the Passion Formula. This isn't a book so much as it is a life plan -- the plan for you to enjoy the rest of your life. As such, I sincerely hope this is the last material on dating you'll ever need to buy.